Why Getting Help isn't Weakness

Uncategorized Jul 24, 2019

This is how I see it..

Given the opportunity, most people would choose healing to be quick rather than slow.

You talk to someone who might have just had surgery, they don’t want their healing to go slowly.

You talk to someone who broke their ankle and are now on crutches, they don’t want their healing to go slowly.

These people want their life back. And they want their life back in the quickest way possible.

This is what I love about energy healing.

There are probably thousands of different modalities of healing. A lot of people might wonder, “why can’t I do this on my own?”

You can do it on your own.

It might take you a really long time, and you might not get where you want to go.

The beautiful thing about humans is we are not created to be alone.

We were created to need each other.

We each have wonderful gifts that we can share with each other.

So if you take the time to go to someone who has the gift of healing, that is farthest from weakness.

I would say it’s smart.

I spent my entire life trying to lose weight.

When I say my entire life, I don’t remember ever being happy with the way I looked.

It started as a very young child. I knew deep inside that my overweight was a symptom of the hurt and shame that I carried around.

In my mind, because I knew, everyone else did. Being overweight affected every aspect of my life.

I Associated my overweight with being unworthy and unlovable. I allowed people to walk all over me, and treat me like dirt.

The reason I did those things was because I believed I wasn’t worthy.

I associated all of those feelings and tag them all on my overweight.

The truth was the overweight was a symptom, and the actual problem was much much deeper.

Searching for Help
I spent time in therapy, in-patient and out-patient.

I have been on antidepressants.

I have tried church.

I have tried fasting, diets, extreme exercise, and even joined a weight loss cult.

I believed my overweight was the cause of me being unlovable, and was willing to do anything to get rid of it.

I just wanted to feel worthy of being loved.

But…. I was wrong that my excess weight had anything to do with my worthiness.
While going through all of these extreme measures I lost a few pounds and gained more back.

I would try a new diet and fail. Over time I began to believe I was a failure.

I have tried many modalities to find this healing.

Something deep inside of me told me that my being overweight had a deeper issue than just how much food I ate and how little I moved.

Now I know that thinking this defied conventional logic. Still I could not shake this unquenchable thirst to understand the depth of the problem.

I studied, researched, and used myself as a guinea pig.

One thing that kept me going was noticing there was something that was causing people to not be able to lose their weight, and it didn’t make any sense to me.

Some people would approach an idea and instantaneously lose all of their weight never to gain it back, and another person could approach the exact same idea and struggle relentlessly with little to no effect.

There had to be more.

I knew thin people who ate like crap. And I knew very overweight people who ate only healthy food.

There had to be more.

I tried many different modalities with some success.

I was able to stop bingeing on sweets, which I never believed would ever be possible.

I had seemingly little successes here and there but the excess weight stayed on.

The thing that kept me going was I could not get my weight off.

One day I just decided this obsession I had was deeper than vanity. In that moment I decided I would figure this out, and I would help as many people as I could overcome this.

I knew instinctively that being overweight was not the problem. So if it was a symptom, then what was the problem?

This is what I’ve spent years trying to understand.

This is Where Energy Healing Came In
The first time I came across the energy healing it was like of veil was lifted off of my eyes and I knew what I had always felt deep inside I was supposed to be doing.

I knew this was the answer.

Energy healing is the the modality that brought me complete healing.

If I look at my life today and compare it to my life before energy healing, it’s unfathomable the change that has happened.

This is why I have decided to dedicate my life to helping other people experience freedom that I have found.

At night I would lay awake wanting to find the answer, but fearing that there was no answer, there was no hope.

I could not succeeded at any diet, and I was too overweight to exercise. There had to be something more.

I Found It.
When a person struggles with what we call an addiction, or a behavior that they don’t want to be doing, there has to be more to it than just low willpower.

There has to be more to it than just pumping yourself up and forcing yourself to do it.

We all know those times when there’s something in our heart that just feels right, and that is effortless.

So why are we struggling to eat our broccoli, and not eat a bag of chips, or half of a cake when no one’s looking?

The answer has to do with energy…

I found that the energy that was stored in my body, and the beliefs that I had around those situations, were the things that were keeping me stuck.

Once I did the work, cleared that energy, the weight loss was effortless.

I begin to just not eat when I wasn’t hungry, without effort.

I began to want to eat food that made me feel good.

I began to look at junk food with disgust, effortlessly.

This doesn’t mean that I eat perfectly, or exercise daily, this is the life that I actually wanted.

Diet and exercise regimens didn’t seem like freedom to me.

When I look at little children I see a freedom.

They don’t think about wasting food, they don’t think about how much food cost, they don’t care how many calories are in food, they eat when they’re hungry and run off and play.

If you feed them something they don’t like, even if they’re hungry, they won’t eat it.

If you feed them a bowl of ice cream and they get full they just run off and play and let it melt.

This is what I wanted, this is freedom in my eyes.

I wanted to be natural.

I didn’t want to think about it.

I didn’t want my life to be consumed with how many calories I was eating, if something had carbs in it, if something had too much trans fat in it.

Freedom to me was never having to think about it again .

I spent decades wondering if this freedom I dreamed of was even possible, I now live that life.

I live the life I dreamed of. This is why energy work is so important to me. This is why I have such a deep intense passion for it.

In the matter of 2 months my life went from someone who…

had no control around food whatsoever
thought the only way to stay thin was to eat raw vegetables and fruit for the rest of my life
and who based my value and worth on the number of a little box I stood upon
and my life transformed to now…

Waking up in the morning and not even thinking about food
When I get hungry, I eat whatever I want
I automatically just want something that makes me feel amazing
Foods that make me feel awful, disgust me
This is all because of energy healing.

I allowed myself to ask for help.

And that help was not weakness, that help was strength.

Someone else came along side me and held me up and believed in me and worked with me to clear all the stored energy that was in my body and in my subconscious causing me to have no control around food.

Not only did I not have any control around food, I felt completely unworthy of love, I felt completely disgusting, and hated myself.

For decades I couldn’t even look in the mirror.

This energy healing that I asked for helped forever changed my life.

So when someone asks me, “why can’t I do this alone?”

My question to them would be, “why would you?”

When someone asks me, “why energy work?”

My answer is – because it’s quick, and thorough.